Dating a hot Russian woman through an international dating agency has so many positives. Yes, she live on another continent but this is quickly outweighed by the benefits. The long toned legs, the inviting smile – all these factors fit together to make a perfect partner.
Now the average western man might not be accustomed to this, especially in ’super size me’ America. Put you in a new situation where you are dating a stunning woman and you are likely to stuff it up and say the wrong things. To avoid foot in mouth syndrome, here are three greattips -
Don’t Talk About Your Ex-Girlfriends
Yes … I know – your ex-wife made your life hell. She got the house, the kids, the dog and just about everything else. But don’t say bad things about her to your new girlfriend when she asks about past relationships – it proves you respect women in her eyes. But just to confuse you, the opposite is not true. If you have close female friends including your ex’s, don’t talk about them either. What a Russian woman does not want to hear is how much you enjoy spending with other women other than her.
The best way to avoid disaster is avoid the topic all together. If she asks about your past, give a respectful and neutral answer. You could use “I am a social person and enjoy spending time with my friends” or “I have a beautiful child from my previous marriage – family is an important part of my life”. Highlight what is important to you, not the ugly history.
How Many Men Is She Talking To?
Any dating site is a forum for single men and women to get to know each other. Look at the members who have joined – how many women are you attracted to? 10? 20? I am going to guess it is more a few.
Now stop and think what it is like for her. If you are attracted to 10 women and send each one an email, then she is likely to have her email inbox filled with atleast 10 more emails from men just like you. You may be the perfect match for her, but she will take her time in getting to know those men who made the effort to write to her. She will eventually cull those she does not feel a connection with until she is left with just one contact – you.
For some men, this process can drive them crazy. But tread carefully here – jealousy will kill your relationship before it can get started. She is not chatting to other men behind your back. You know exactly what is going on. The key is not to pester her about it. Lether focus on you in her own time. If you force the issue early on, you are the one she will delete from her contact list.
How Expensive Long Distance Dating Is
You have to remember that Russia is not America. The landscape, language and culture are all different. Part of understanding her and her culture is understanding how she might interpret what you say. For example, if you tell her that flights to Moscow are expensive, you are saying that it will take you a 4 or 5 months before you can save for it. What she will hear though is that you can’t afford it – ever.
Cash is still king inRussia. Even the concept of getting a home loan has only gained popularity in the last 3 or 4 years. Previously they bought their homes with a suitcase load of cash. So the idea of using credit to buy everything is completely foreign to her. Your new girlfriend was brought up with a mindset that ‘expensive’ meant that you would never be able to pay cash for it. Tell her that flights are expensive and she will think you are not going to visit her and not serious about a relationship.
The key here is avoid saying something is expensive. If you have to save for a couple of months before you could afford to go, simply say you have other obligations until you are ready.
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